Published inThe Partnered Pen·PinnedMember-onlyOne Pan Goulash Brought Me Freedom From Helper MealsWhen I was raising my kids, I loved skillet box meals. Brown some hamburger, open a tin of tuna, and follow the bouncing ball directions on the box. Easy peasy lemon squeezy; dinner for the family, all on the stove, in one pan. But one day, I didn't have a…Cooking2 min readCooking2 min read
Published inThe Partnered Pen·PinnedMember-onlyMy Dog and I Are Having the Same Breakfast This MorningThere have been a lot of dog food recalls lately, and a lot of dogs getting sick and dying. I know that what I see in news stories looks worse than it is. Most dogs are fine with commercial dog food. They thrive even. My own dog has been fine…Pets2 min readPets2 min read
Published inThe Shadow·PinnedMember-onlyI Went Back on Medication and Nothing Has Changed…Except EverythingWhen my grandson was born, I weaned off my medication. I moved from Minnesota to North Dakota for a year and lost my health insurance. I was helping my daughter while she was in school and the Adderall I was taking for my ADHD was making me feel irritable and…Adhd10 min readAdhd10 min read
Published inThe Partnered Pen·PinnedMember-onlyIn Less Than Three Months of 2021, I’ve Already Surpassed My 2020 Medium IncomeIn all of 2020, I made exactly $33, and I joined in 2019. I’ve written about 2020 going down the tubes for me. I was trying to survive. I am glad to say 2021 has been a bit kinder. I am not getting rich, but it is still good to…Productivity3 min readProductivity3 min read
Published inP.S. I Love You·PinnedMember-onlyCatchYou spread your arms out Lean back and fall And I catch you Over and over Each time you sail Less hesitant, less resistant To gravity and all its force Sometimes it takes more than trust to make the catch And I learn this as my arms go numb and my…Poetry1 min readPoetry1 min read
Published inPop Off·Jul 17, 2021Member-onlyIn New Series, Annie Murphy is Not Even a Little Bit AlexisShe’s Up Sh**’S Creek in a Whole New Way — Like many other people, I didn’t start watching Schitt’s Creek until after the final episode aired. The show took home nine Emmy awards in 2020, which included Annie Murphy’s prize for Outstanding Supporting Actress in a Comedy Series for her portrayal of Alexis Rose, a socialite stripped of her money…Television3 min readTelevision3 min read
Published inThe Dream Verse·Updated Jun 16, 2021Member-onlyWhen Thunder ComesJoy rumbles like thunder Off my skin Through my veins and capillaries My air passages And all that makes me alive After the heatwave Paralyzed by the sun turned enemy I welcome the storm I could hear the thunder in the distance Even before the first drops of rain Sits suspended in…Poetry1 min readPoetry1 min read
Published inPop Off·Jun 1, 2021Member-onlyMy Takeaways From The Friends Reunion SpecialI was more impressed with the Downton Abbey Movie — I don’t always have HBO, but I had a slight case of FOMO, so I decided to get it for a couple of months. Among the supposed “must-see” shows was the highly anticipated “Friends Reunion Special” hosted by James Corbin. The show began with the main six cast members entering…Friends5 min readFriends5 min read
Published inBlue Insights·May 27, 2021Member-onlyGaslightThere is no sword as sharp as silence The serrated blade twists Inches from my heart And will not let me let go Every scrape stings Like vinegar on an open wound And will never heal All I hear is your laughter Maniacal giggles Singsong gotchas As I swallow my tears And my screams…Love1 min readLove1 min read
Published inThe Partnered Pen·May 18, 2021Member-onlyA Quick Directory of My ADHD Related StoriesHaving ADHD often means being unsure or which way to go or what way to turn. It can aggravate depression and anxiety and bring out bouts of forgetfulness and general brain fog. All of this is sometimes better with medication, but the challenges never really go away. Over the past…Writing6 min readWriting6 min read